Advertisement
  • Home
  • NewsWire
  • Travel & Tourism
    • PoliticalWire
  • EntertainmentWire
  • LiveWire
    • Kasolo’s Tales
Thursday, November 30, 2023
  • Home
  • NewsWire
  • Travel & Tourism
    • PoliticalWire
  • EntertainmentWire
  • LiveWire
    • Kasolo’s Tales
The Ugandan Wire
Home EducationWire

CONFESSION: Sometimes, With My Wife, I Have to First Imagine My Crush to Cum – Am I Normal?

by admin
in EducationWire, Sex and Relationships
Kenyans Commend President Museveni’s Tactics Towards COVID-19 Control
Share on FacebookShare on TwitterShare on WhatsApp

“Dear Editor, I need relationship advice. I was going through your site and I realised that you have a section for “Sex and Relationships” and as such, I assumed that you may be able to have someone in your newsroom that would give me advice or lead me where I should get it.

My name is Tomson, I am 38 and married with 2 children – a boy and a girl. My wife and I have been married for ten years now and I think I am nolonger able to achieve sexual satisfaction with her.

Most of the time, after long minutes of non-stop sex without ejaculating, I start imagining that I am having sex with my crush instead and only then have I been able to ejaculate. What could be the problem? Please help me.”

ADVICE

Dear Tomson,

Some people, both men and women, take quite a while to work their way up to an orgasm. According to medics and pyschologists, sometimes, it’s situational for instance if you’re drunk, fatigued, in pain, taking antidepressant medication, or pre-occupied by emotional stress.

We have been able to compile just a few remedies that can help you overcome that situation of taking long to cum and encourage you to rehearse them to save your marriage.

  • Cheer Up: Always know that you can orgasm. Pyschologists believe that most difficulties can be resolved with a do-it-yourself approach. Cheer yourself up around your wife and know that she will make you cum, take out the habit of having to think about someone else.
  • Don’t Tell Your Wife About it, Unless You’re 100% Sure She Won’t Find it Offensive: Opening up to your wife about it might seem like a good step towards helping yourself, but what is on the flip side? Are you sure she won’t be offended? Will it jeopardise your marriage?
  • Use Lubricants: Saliva, vegetable oils, and commercial lubricants enhance the pleasure of sensual touch and often hasten orgasm. Maybe your wife isn’t lubricated enough. A different feel of her may quicken your process of ejaculating.
  • Limit Alcohol: Alcohol makes people more likely to say “yes” to sexual invitations, according to research, but subsequent drinks depress the nervous system and may inhibit orgasm. If orgasms are a problem for you, limit yourself to one drink within an hour or so of intercourse and monitor the result.
  • Relax Deeply: Stress interferes with orgasm. Before you begin the horizontal dance, try a hot bath or shower, very relaxing. In addition, incorporate a stress-management regimen into your life: daily exercise, meditation, yoga, playing music, or anything else that leaves you feeling calm, refreshed, and emotionally renewed.
  • Spend More Time Self Juicing: Self-pleasuring teaches what turns you on and works you up to orgasm. For most people, as the frequency of masturbation to climax increases, so does the ability to have orgasms with partners.
  • Communicate With Your Partner: During intercourse, talk to your partner. Tell her your spots and things she does that excite you. Encourage her to do that more often. Let her study you and understand you, and that way, she will be able to make you cum.
  • Try Different Intercourse Position. Many men can climax more easily in some positions than others. Do you know your weak position Tomson? Experiment and discover it, so that whenever you’re running late, you suggest it.
READ ALSO:  Sex Increases Life Span - Experts Back Nkumba University Professor who Wed a Girl 100 Years His Junior

But yeah, you’re normal Tomson. Don’t feel any different.

Advertisement

Tags: Sex and Relationships
admin

admin

Related Posts

Over 2,000 Admitted to Makerere University, MUBS For the 2020/2021 Academic Year
EducationWire

FULL LIST: 2023 Makerere University, MUBS Admissions

by Alexandra Katusiime
07/12/2023
MasterCard Scholarship Application Forms for University Education at Makerere Released
EducationWire

Makerere Students to Boycott Council Organized Guild Elections

by Solomon Katushabe
08/28/2022
Next Post
Facebook Takes Down Ashburg Katto’s Ghetto TV Page That He “Stole” From People Power

Facebook Takes Down Ashburg Katto's Ghetto TV Page That He "Stole" From People Power

We Have Tens of Lawyers Lined Up to Handle Petitions From Primaries - NRM

Discussion about this post




Trending Stories

  • [Price List] Cost Of Construction Materials On A Rise

    [Price List] Cost Of Construction Materials On A Rise

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • KENYANS: Ugandans are ‘Kachabali’ Masters, Here is How They Do it [Video]

    6 shares
    Share 6 Tweet 0
  • UNVEILED: The Hottest Ugandan Girls on Instagram

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • PHOTOS: Fresh 35,000 Seater Nakivubo War Memorial Stadium to be Ready in 2021

    0 shares
    Share 0 Tweet 0

Latest Updates

CGMD miner unveils its user-friendly cloud mining platform, simplifying crypto mining for investors, especially beginners

CGMD miner unveils its user-friendly cloud mining platform, simplifying crypto mining for investors, especially beginners

11/08/2023
betPawa Customers Bag UGX 114 Billion in a Space of 10 Days

betPawa Customers Bag UGX 114 Billion in a Space of 10 Days

11/06/2023
URA under fire for not uniformly implementing tax exemptions on medical equipment

URA under fire for not uniformly implementing tax exemptions on medical equipment

10/23/2023
EALA’s Jacqueline Amongin Exchanges Vows with Husband Achelles Lubega

EALA’s Jacqueline Amongin Exchanges Vows with Husband Achelles Lubega

10/23/2023
Key Witness Confirms Extra Cargo on BoU Plane Was not Printed Currency as Trial Commences

Cease outsourcing Company Secretaries – BoU directs Banks

10/18/2023

Explore




ABOUT US

We offer accurate news across politics, entertainment, sports, education and features to provide an all round experience for our readers in Uganda.

Email: editorial@theugandanwire.com

Follow Us

Facebook




  • About
  • Advertise
  • Privacy & Policy
  • Contact

© 2019 The Ugandan Wire

  • NewsWire
  • Travel & Tourism
  • EntertainmentWire
  • LiveWire
    • Gossip
    • Lifestyle
  • Jobs

© 2019 The Ugandan Wire

Login to your account below

Forgotten Password?

Fill the forms bellow to register

All fields are required. Log In

Retrieve your password

Please enter your username or email address to reset your password.

Log In